Every relationship hits that stage where things start feeling a little… routine. You love them, they love you, but the spontaneity? The edge? The holy-sh*t-I-need-you-right-now feeling?
Yeah, it’s time to bring that back. And trust me, it’s easier than you think.
Step 1: Break the Routine & Get Unpredictable 😏
If you always do the same thing—same positions, same time, same place—of course, things will feel repetitive. You gotta switch it up and keep them guessing.
🔥 Surprise them. Pull them into a kiss out of nowhere. Whisper something dirty while they’re doing something totally normal (like brushing their teeth 😏).
🔥 Change the scenery. The bedroom is great, but have you ever tried the couch, kitchen counter, shower, car…?
🔥 Mix up the order. Who says foreplay has to come first? Who says you can’t wake them up in the middle of the night and just take what you want?
✨ Pookie Tip: Next time you’re out together, lean in and say, “I’m not wearing any underwear.” Then? Act like nothing happened. Watch them lose it. 😈
Step 2: Flirt Like You're Still Trying to Get Them 😉
When you first got together, you probably flirted like crazy. Why did that stop? Flirting is the secret sauce to endless sexual tension.
💖 Play hard to get. Even though they already “have” you, make them work for it again. A little chase is hot.
💖 Send spicy texts—even when you’re in the same room. “Meet me in the bedroom in 10 minutes. No clothes. No questions.” 🔥
💖 Make eye contact and hold it. Then? Bite your lip. (Trust me.)
✨ Pookie Tip: When they’re least expecting it, whisper, “I dare you to get through dinner without touching me.” Game. On. 😏
Step 3: Explore Something New (Yes, We Mean Kinks) 😈
If you’ve been playing it safe, now’s the time to get a little adventurous. Trying something new can turn the heat ALL the way up.
🔥 Switch up the roles. If one of you is always dominant, flip the script.
🔥 Bring in the senses. Blindfolds, ice, hot wax, silk ties—exploring touch in new ways makes everything feel brand new.
🔥 Talk dirty—no filter. The filthier, the better. And if you feel shy? Text it first.
✨ Pookie Tip: Try a "Yes, No, Maybe" list with your partner. You might find out you BOTH have secret fantasies. 😏
Step 4: Build Anticipation Like a F*cking Pro 😍
You don’t have to jump straight into it—sometimes, the wait is half the fun.
🔥 Send a “just wait until later” text hours before you see them.
🔥 Kiss them slow, touch them everywhere—then stop. Walk away. Make them crave it.
🔥 Make them wait for release. Edge them, tease them, tell them they can’t finish until you say so.
✨ Pookie Tip: Teasing starts EARLY. If you build tension all day, by the time you finally touch, it’s f*cking explosive. 😏
Final Thought: Keeping It Hot is a Mindset 😘
The secret to never losing the spark? Keep seeing each other as NEW. Keep chasing. Keep flirting. Keep playing the game—forever.
So whether it’s trying new things, breaking the routine, or teasing them until they can’t take it anymore—make them crave you every single day. 😈
🔥 Your Pleasure. Your Way. Be Pookie. 🔥
